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9 January 2009 – The Abu Oda Family

“The Israeli military say they are the most
moral army in the world, but they killed my daughter, they didn’t respect her
right to live”


and Ahmed Abu Oda with a picture of their daughter Nariman Abu Oda


On 9 January 2009, the Abu Oda household in the Al Amal
neighbourhood of Beit Hanoun came under sustained fire from Israeli positions
close to the Gaza-Israeli border 2 kilometres away. Nariman Abu Oda, 16, was hit
in the right side of her body by Israeli fire as she was walking from the
hallway, where the family were taking cover, to the kitchen. Medics were unable
to reach the family and Nariman died before she could receive medical


The pockmarked concrete walls of the Abu Oda household tell a good
deal of the story of Nariman’s death. Despite the best efforts of father Ahmed
Abdel Kareem Muhammad, 57, and mother, I’tidal Abd al Aziz, 53, to plaster over
the patch work of holes and indentations in the walls, ceiling, floors and
doors, the house remains riddled with bullet holes. As I’tidal explains “it is
clear the shooting was completely indiscriminate.” 


Nariman’s mother and father keep returning to the question, why did
this happen? For them, it is not an empty rhetorical question, but one that
holds a great deal of weight and a great deal of their concern. “Why my
daughter? What were their motives? What were their reasons?” asks Ahmed. “The
Israeli military say they are the most moral army in the world, but they killed
my daughter, they didn’t respect her
right to live.”


The Abu Oda family find themselves caught in a deep state of
mourning regarding Nariman’s absence, yet at the same time feel her constant
presence. Recalling that Nariman used to make him his coffee in the morning,
Ahmed says that, he still absentmindedly calls for Nariman when he wants coffee
or tea. “Her room is still exactly as she left it three years ago, with
everything still in its place.” Despite this, the family are desperately
seeking to move; “we do not want to live in the house that Nariman was killed
in,” says Ahmed. Adding to the sense of presence Nariman has in the house,
I’tidal and Ahmed’s children Shadi, 34, Abdel Kareem, 32, and Sahar, 30, have
all since had daughters whom they named Nariman, in the memory of their younger


I’tidal was deeply affected physically and mentally by the loss of
her daughter who used to help her a lot with daily household chores. “When I
see young girls going to school I imagine her with them, I see her in every
room of the house, I will never forget her. After the incident I was admitted
to the hospital for ten days due to shock” recalls I’tidal, “since then I have
suffered from huge physical problems resulting from stress.” I’tidal has health
complications relating to blood pressure, heart disease and diabetes.


The family did not only lose Nariman during the Israeli offensive,
but also their livelihood. The family had a citrus grove and a poultry farm
that were totally destroyed during the attack and have another farm that they
cannot reach due to its proximity to the Israeli imposed buffer zone. The
family have recently planted seedlings in one of the destroyed farms again but
are still waiting to harvest them. However, the loss of income from the farms
is mentioned merely as an afterthought to the loss of Nariman. “We care nothing
for the loss of our land compared to the loss of our daughter” says Ahmed. 


Speaking of the future the couple are desperately seeking answers
and demand accountability. “I don’t expect the case to be successful, they will
change the facts, the only thing I want is to address the soldier who killed my
daughter” says Ahmed. “But I hope one day that we can reach peace with the
Israeli’s and end the war and the killing.”


PCHR submitted a criminal complaint to
the Israeli authorities on behalf of the Abu Oda Family on 30 August 2009.
To-date, no response has been received.


The Narratives:


 8 January 2009: The Al-Rahel family

 7 January 2009 – The Mattar Family

– 6 January
2009: Al-Dayah family

5 January 2009: Amal al-Samouni

– 4 January 2009: The Abdel Dayem Family

3 January 2009: Motee’ and Isma’il as-Selawy

– 2 January 2009: Eyad al-Astal

– 1 January 2009: The Nasla Family

 31 December 2008: The Abu Areeda family

– 30 December 2008: The Hamdan Family

29 December 2008: Balousha Family

 28 December 2008: The Abu Taima family

– 27 December 2008: The Al Ashi Family.